Grieving After the Loss of Your Cat

Grieving is natural

I’m Dr Racheal Korman. I know this is an incredibly difficult time, and I want to talk a little about the grief that comes after losing your cat.

It’s natural to feel a wave of emotions following euthanasia, and as veterinarians, we completely understand. Please never feel the need to apologise for showing how much you love your cat. Your feelings are a testament to the bond you shared, and it’s okay to let those emotions out.

Grieving the loss of a pet can take time, and that time is different for everyone. There’s no right or wrong way to go through it. Sharing your feelings with friends and family who understand how special your relationship is can really help.

It may be comforting to talk about your memories or simply have someone who listens. You’re not alone in this. There are also some supportive communities, whether through websites, forums, or local groups, where others understand what you’re going through. Our website lists a few resources that might help if you want to connect with others who have experienced a similar loss.

Grieving alongside children can be especially tough. Every family handles it differently, and you know your child best. Some children find it helpful to hold a small memorial service for their pets to say goodbye. If you’re looking for something to guide them through this, a lovely book called The Invisible Leash by Patrice Karst can help explain loss to children gently and thoughtfully. We have a link to this book on our website, and it might be a good resource for your family.

 

Two cats lying side by side

It's okay to grieve

One of the most important things to remember is that it’s okay to grieve for your cat.

Cats are such an integral part of our families, and feeling sad or even overwhelmed after they pass is completely normal.

Don’t hesitate to share your stories with others, and if you’d like, feel free to send us cards or pictures celebrating the memories you’ve made together.

For us, as vets, this part of the job is always incredibly hard, but hearing how much you loved your cat and what they meant to you helps us, too.

Grief is a natural process, but during this time, please take care of yourself. If you ever feel like you need support, whether it’s someone to talk to or just guidance, we’re here for you. The love and care you gave your cat was incredible, and they were lucky to have you, just as you were lucky to have them.

Remember, you don’t have to go through this alone. Reach out to us whenever you need—we’re here to support you.

Are you worried about your cat’s health?

If you are concerned about your cat, please reach out to our friendly team. Call us on 1300 228 377 or fill out the contact form below. In an emergency, please contact your local vet.

For vets – to refer a patient or book a telehealth consultation, please call us on 1300 228 377, book through the portal or fill in the form.

Patient Stories

Our commitment to feline health is best seen in the stories of the cats we’ve had the privilege of treating. These journeys highlight the dedication, expertise and compassion that drive us.

Each patient faced unique challenges, and it was our honour to offer high-quality care and help them regain strength and happiness. We value the deep bonds with cats and their owners, knowing the difference we make in their lives.

Tango Triumphs Over FIP

At 5 months old, Tango was diagnosed with Feline Infectious Peritonitis (FIP). Once considered a fatal disease, the introduction of new treatments has significantly boosted the survival rate.

Toffee Survives Tick Paralysis

Toffee faced a frightening battle with tick paralysis and aspiration pneumonia, she was rushed to AES when her owners noticed her vomiting, breathing difficulties and trouble walking.

JJ & the Lily – a close call

Mischievous JJ had a close call when he ingested part of a lily—an extremely toxic plant for cats. Thanks to the quick actions of his owner, Sophie, a VSS vet nurse, JJ made a full recovery.

Han’s Hip Fracture Surgery

Han presented after limping on his hind leg for two weeks following an accident at home. An X-ray revealed a fractured growth plate in his hip, requiring surgery to repair the injury.

Coco and Kidney Troubles

Coco stayed with us at CSS while recovering from a nephrectomy (the surgical kidney removal). After months of unsuccessful treatment for a ureteral obstruction, this became necessary.

 

Contacting Us

Pet Owners
If you would like to talk about treatment for your cat, call us on 1300 228 377 or fill in the form.
In an emergency, please contact your local vet.

Vets and Nurses
To refer a patient or book a telehealth consultation please call us on 1300 228 377, book through the portal or fill in the form. For advice calls, please see the guidelines here.

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